At the heart of the Salesian community in Messina, Italy, two theology students, Stephen Aji-Imoter and Marcel Ezenwa, are embracing their formation journey at the St Thomas Aquinas Salesian Theologate. Recently, they had the honour of welcoming their provincial, Fr. Peter, and the provincial economer, Fr. Raphael. Their reflections provide an intimate glimpse into what it truly means to live and grow within the Salesian tradition today.
A Warm Salesian Welcome
Marcel vividly recalls the warm reception they received from the rector and the entire community upon their arrival. This vibrant community comprises 45 members, including 32 student confreres from diverse backgrounds across Africa, Europe, and Asia, alongside 13 Salesian priests—formators and those pursuing further specialisation.
This rich international blend embodies the spirit of the Salesian mission: to be tangible signs of God’s love for the youth, especially those who are most in need. It’s a mission beautifully articulated in the Constitutions of the Society of St. Francis de Sales, reminding them daily of their purpose: “To be in the Church, signs and bearers of the love of God for young people, especially those who are poor.”
In Messina, this conviction isn’t just a matter of words; it comes alive through their shared experiences and deep connections. The theologate serves as more than just an academic institution—it’s a living, breathing community where the essence of Salesian values is woven into everyday life.
Learning the Language, Living the Mission
Before settling into their new life in Messina, Stephen and Marcel spent four transformative months in Palermo. There, they were part of a small community of eight elderly confreres engaged in bustling apostolic work, spanning a technical school, a parish, and an oratory.
This time in Palermo turned out to be an invaluable foundation. Immersed in the vibrant pastoral life, they learnt Italian not only from textbooks but also through meaningful interactions with young people and community members. It wasn’t always easy; in fact, the initial phase was filled with its share of struggles and frustrations. However, they were patiently guided by two wise Italian Salesian sisters who enriched their language journey with compassion and encouragement.
Their experience echoed the thoughts of Pietro Braido, who emphasizes the Salesian educational approach rooted in presence, relationships, and shared life. For Stephen and Marcel, learning the language transcended mere words—it became a genuine act of becoming part of the Sicilian community and understanding how to serve it better.
The “New Reality” in Messina
As Stephen reflects on their arrival in Messina, he describes it as stepping into a “new reality”. The Sicilia Province is home to 25 communities and 148 confreres, with the headquarters in Catania. The theologate brings together Salesians from various continents—Africans, Brazilians, Italians, Sri Lankans, and many others—alongside students from different congregations and lay faithful pursuing theology.
This diverse setting is a testament to the global growth of the Salesian charism. What started in Valdocco has blossomed into a worldwide family united in mission and spirit, still echoing the foundational teachings of Don Bosco.
For Stephen and Marcel, their first month in Messina has been both an enriching and challenging experience. It represents a journey marked by gradual adjustment—intellectually, culturally, and spiritually.
A Visit That Strengthens Communion
The recent visit from Fr. Peter and Fr. Raphael added a layer of significance to their experience. Marcel characterised this moment as a heartfelt opportunity for fraternal sharing, listening, and support. Stephen described it as a meaningful exchange—an experience filled with connection and understanding as they navigate their new phase of formation.
Such visits reflect the Salesian spirit of community. The presence of superiors signifies unity and closeness within the congregation, reminding confreres they’re not alone in their journey, especially when facing new cultural and pastoral challenges.
In a world characterised by diversity and constant movement, these simple gestures of presence and genuine listening remind everyone that formation is never a solitary process; it’s inherently communal.
Formation in the Spirit of Don Bosco
The stories shared by Stephen and Marcel encapsulate critical aspects of Salesian formation:
- Community as a space for learning and growth
- The beauty and challenges of intercultural fraternity
- Integrating mission with academic pursuits
- The profound impact of accompaniment on personal development
Their progression—from language learning in Palermo to academic studies in Messina—reflects the deep commitment to the Salesian tradition, which remains rooted in its history yet open to new experiences.
As they continue their theological formation, it’s essential to hold them in our thoughts and prayers. Their journey stands as a living testament to the Salesian charism, flourishing across continents. May their “new reality” evolve into a rich tapestry of growth, communion, and meaningful preparation for service to the youth.
